Monday, May 31, 2021

May 29: Are You Sure?

This week's "Wait Wait Don't Tell Me" on NPR featured a news tidbit that resulted in delightful jokes the rest of the episode. Apparently, Tinder has added a feature to alert users before they send a direct message that includes a bad pickup line or bullying with a pop-up that double checks if the user really wants to send the message. The feature is called "Are you sure?"  Helen Hong was asked about this during the panelist questions round, and she got it right on the first guess. She responded, "Oh. I wonder how I knew that." haha. (She is open about her avid use of dating apps).  Peter Sagal (the host) further explained that AI will read through messages and alert the user if "it detects certain, like, bad ideas." Panelist Jessie Klein wondered, "Is 'bad idea' a euphemism for a picture of a penis?" hahaha. Helen suggested, "What about, 'you up?'" haha. The segment ended with the best joke, delivered by Jessie: "Cut to a year from now when Tinder is like, well, according to our data, 99.9% of dudes are sure." hahahahaha.

But the "Are you sure" jokes delightfully didn't end there. 

During the limericks round, Peter described a new robotic thumb developed at University College in London that attaches to your hand next to your pinky and promises to help people do difficult things more dexterously,  It's mechanical, and you control it with a sensor in your shoe under your big toe. Jessie immediately chimed in, "Guys, I'm going to say it. Are you sure?" hahahahaha.

Also during the limericks round, Peter described "an annual grave digging competition in Siberia, which is intended to, quote, 'attract younger generations to careers in the funeral industry.'". After a funny discussion about this ridiculous event, Jessie chimed in again, "Guys, I'm having the urge to try it one more time just to see if it works. Here it goes. Are you sure?" hahahahaha.

I always delight in "Wait Wait Don't Tell Me", but this episode, and this joke in particular, was especially delightful, and now my husband and I will be using it often (we did it several times on Sunday already. haha!)

With delight,

♥Jamie

Saturday, May 29, 2021

May 28: A Good Friday

Wow, looking back, I am delighted that I got a *lot* of things done on Friday. My day started super early, but I still made coffee and breakfast for my husband and I, and fed my cats and baby chicks before heading off to babysit for my friend's daughter for about 3 hours (during which she slept half the time so I made a list of things to do later and then read on my kindle). 

Since I was already on the island, I then went grocery shopping, filled my gas tank, and picked up extra large iced coffees for my husband and I (perhaps *one* of the reasons I got so much done!). After dropping off all of my goodies at home, I brought the baby chicks outside for some chicken integration time (even it was a tad bit nipply out, they do have most of their feathers, so they are just fine being outside) and then I went to Agway in Danvers to get some more chicken supplies (food and treats). 

While out, I got a call from a friend trying to organize another gathering of the fellowship, so we decided to meet at 6pm. Back at home, I ate lunch, worked on some Jeo-Party and balanced our family budget, made a phone date with a friend from college, talked to another friend (whom I hadn't spoken to in awhile!) on the phone for about an hour, ran 2 miles, took a shower, and brought the baby chicks back inside, before setting up our Lord of the Rings game, which we played until midnight (and again, we won one adventure and the lost another, so out record is 3-3). 

It was an incredibly delightful and productive day, so very different from the days when I just want to sit on the couch and play video games all day. I'm very thankful for these boosts of energy and motivation, and hope they continue! Maybe it's the nice weather (though Friday wasn't even that nice!), my hormone level, my running practice, my generally unstressful life situation (aka not having a crazy stressful job), the vitamin D I've started taking every day, or more realistically a combination of all those things, but it's delightful not to be bogged down and clouded by the depression, apathy, and lethargy that so very often creep into my life. 

With delight,

♥Jamie

May 27: Friends' Contributions

For last night's Jeo-Party, I had three friends submit 2 categories each, which was incredibly delightful, not only because it meant WAY less work for me, but also it was great to have a diversity of voices and ideas during the game. (I was also SUPER proud of one of my friends for using the word "eponymous" in one of her clues!!) I also tried out a new round called "Categories". I give one team a word, and they have 4 guesses to figure out the category it belongs to, for $1000. If not correct, I give another word, and they give 4 more guesses for $800. Then another word for $600, another for $400, and another for $200. The idea is that the more words you have, the easier it is to guess the category, thus the fewer points you receive. For example:

  • Lemonade ($1000)
  • Smores ($800)
  • Samoa ($600)
  • Tagalog ($400)
  • Thin Mint ($200)

The category is....

Girl Scout Cookies

A few of my categories were apparently WAY too easy, but others were just right. Interestingly enough, the hardest one was the example I made to show my friends how it worked:

  • Pepper (guesses included spice, fruit, vegetable)
  • Munchkin (guesses included donuts, dessert, and my husband guesses chickens which was close but not quite right)
  • Zelda (my husband finally guessed it correctly, but other guesses included video game characters)
  • Bernie
  • Fela

The category is...

Klopotoski Pet Names

This week's Jeo-Party was also delightful because my husband played the game with our friends (usually he does not play because he sees the answers while he codes the game, and we usually edit it and play test it together, but we did not have time to edit it together this week, *and* I have learned how to code and edit everything on my own, so he doesn't see any of the answers anymore!) 

I continue to have a delightful time with our (mostly weekly) Jeo-Party trivia games. I like that we are able to gather people from anywhere in the world for online games. Even though it started as a safety precaution during the pandemic, I might continue this for the foreseeable future as a fun, easy, safe way to get people together. (Selfishly, I also *love* learning all the fun tidbits of trivia to put together for the game..... which also helps me find delightful things to blog about as I learn more and more delightful facts!)

With delight,

♥Jamie

Friday, May 28, 2021

May 26: Motivation

I had a list of things I wanted to accomplish today, and I was delighted that I had a good amount of energy and was motivated to complete all of them, plus more! 

Floors: I bought a new floor steamer and finally got a chance to use it on our brand new kitchen floors. They were clean for all of 5 minutes, but still, they were a great and beautiful 5 minutes (that's what I get for living with cats and chickens and a gardening husband). Check ✅

Litter Boxes: I try to clean these regularly, especially before I have people over to the house. Check ✅

Trash: Thursday mornings are trash and recycling day, so I lugged it all out to the curb Check ✅

Bees: I sadly had not checked on the bees in about 2 weeks, so I hard core needed to get this done. I suited it up and went through both hives. Check ✅ Yellow hive: doing well. LOTS of eggs and lots of capped honey, ready for a second box. Did not see the queen, but eggs are a good sign of the queen being active and healthy. Blue box: also doing well with lots of eggs and capped honey. Slightly worried because we saw evidence of queen cells (all of which I destroyed). Queens cells are a sign that the hive was starting to outgrow its space; the bees prepare to leave the hive by making a new queen and leaving with her once she is grown. We hurriedly put on their second box and I hope that they build into that space instead of making a new queen and flying away!

And I also had time to hang out with the baby chickens while they continue to integrate into their coop, and I finished and printed several songs for band practice (Animaniacs Theme Song, Sparring with Neighbors from My Time at Portia, and a mix of Ghost Fight and Dummy from Undertale). I also organized all the music binders and made sure everyone had their music. And we had a delightful rehearsal. Check ✅

With delight,

Jamie

Thursday, May 27, 2021

May 25: Squeezed in a Run

I spent too much of my morning and afternoon arranging another song for "Reset Button" (this time, a mash up of "Ghost Fight" and "Dummy!" from the video game "Undertale", which I am SUPER excited about; I really do think it turned out really well) that all of a sudden it was 6pm and I had to go pick up the pizzas for Magic Pizza Tuesday. When I got home, I easily could have just started playing Magic with all my friends, but decided that I absolutely needed to get in a run. I knew my friends would be self-sufficient; I set them up with their first games and their pizza, and then enjoyed a 30 minute run on the elliptical (and a super sweet cool shower afterwards). I feel so much stronger and more energized after I run, and even though some days I dread it (or actively avoid it), I'm always so grateful after I finally get it done. I am delighted in myself for having the motivation to run (and grateful for my understanding friends who hung out in my house without me for almost an hour). I think I am starting to see and feel results as well, which is obviously also incredibly delightful, and I hope that I can keep the momentum going. 

With delight,

♥Jamie

May 24: Frozen Yogurt

My husband got his second vaccine shot on Monday, so in two weeks we will both be fully vaccinated and protected from COVID-19 as much as we currently can be, and hope to resume at least a few of our past activities (especially eating at restaurants, though I will have to warm up to this idea and plan to start by eating outside at restaurants first). After the shot, I suggested we get take out froyo, and of course he approved. We always get froyo from Cafe Bischo on Main Street in Gloucester. It's smooth, creamy deliciousness that you can add a multiplicity of toppings (mix-ins) to. We both used to get coffee & oreo, but that is too sweet for my keto tastebuds, so I now get strawberry & walnut, which is absolutely delightful. I have learned to portion it (I have half immediately and half later), so it's like having TWO froyos :) It was nice to have a treat, especially on such a warm sunny day, and it almost felt celebratory after the vaccination. I definitely worry that there is still so much we don't know about the virus or the vaccine, but I really hope that we have taken a turn for the better with so many more people vaccinated. Here's to the upcoming summer, warm weather, less COVID, and more froyo!

With delight,

♥Jamie

May 23: Three Games in One Night!

We had nine people at Sunday Night Game Night, which was delightful, and I was able to play three different games: Blokus, Dixit, and Wingspan (none of which I won, but all of which were incredibly entertaining). I especially delight in having so many people over to play games, because there are some games that just don't work with two people, so I literally need more than my husband and I to play games like Blokus and Dixit. 

Dixit especially is WAY better with more people; it's supposed to be a max of 6, but it is super easy to add more people to the game, and play with 8 or 10 people.  In case you've never played it (and I highly recommend you do!), each player gets a hand full of beautifully illustrated cards (I keep buying new expansions to get more and more cards). Each turn, a different player is the storyteller and says a clue based on one of their cards; it could be a word, a phrase, a sentence, even just a sound or gesture, and puts that card face down in the middle of the table. Each other player selects a card in their hands which best matches the clue and puts it face down in the middle. All the chosen cards are then shuffled up and shown face up in a random order, and every player votes for which picture they think was the storyteller's. If nobody or everybody finds the correct card, the storyteller scores 0, and each of the other players scores 2. Otherwise the storyteller and whoever found the correct answer score 3. Players score 1 point for every vote for their own card. You play until someone gets 30 points (or you can play until whenever you want!) It's like of like a picture form of Apples to Apples or Cards Against Humanity (though not nearly as dirty), and works with all kinds of different groups of people (young to old). 

Blokus ONLY works with 4 people. We do own a two player version called "Battle" but it's just not as good. Board Game Geek calls Blokus "an abstract strategy game" with transparent, Tetris-shaped, colored pieces that players are trying to place onto the board. The only caveat to placing a piece is that it may not lie adjacent to your other pieces, but instead must be placed touching at least one corner of your pieces already on the board. It requires spatial reasoning and thinking ahead and hoping that other players don't f*** with you. I like that it is a quick game, and works well as an intro game to start off the night while we are waiting for more people to show up.

There are SO many delightful things about Board Game Nights (seeing friends, trying new games, socializing, having fun, strategizing) and I am so thankful we are starting to host them again!

With delight,

♥Jamie

Monday, May 24, 2021

May 22: Reconvening the Fellowship

I spent most of the day hanging out in the chicken coop with the 4 babies and the 3 adults (I thoroughly washed my hands afterwards, I promise!) It was delightfully warm and sunny, and I had cleaned up the coop a bit, so at one point, I had all 7 chickens dirt bathing (and basking in the sun) at the same time, which was adorably cute and delightful. I also finally ran on the elliptical (after 5 days of craziness and excuses: Monday I took a walk instead, Tuesday I was exhausted from babysitting, Wednesday I had band practice instead [definitely a work out], Thursday I was sick, and Friday I was recovering from being sick) and it felt great to get my blood pumping, and even greater to take a cool shower afterwards.

But the best part of the day was reconvening the fellowship so we could continue our campaign of the Lord the Rings Game (Journey to Middle Earth). We played two more adventures and again, we passed one and failed the other, though the one we failed we could have totally passed if I would have stuck to my instincts. That adventure was like a murder mystery game; we had to investigate and collect clues in order to choose a suspect to apprehend. I had an inkling the whole time that it was the dwarf and I should have fought for this instinct. Instead I was talked out of it and we chose the hobbit, which was incorrect. The dwarf was indeed the suspect, and he escaped, so we lost. So in the four adventures we have played, our record is 2-2, not great, but not terrible. And we still have many more adventures to come! It is delightful to have an episodic game to play with a regular group of people (I totally see why D&D campaigns are so popular. I just didn't quite like the mechanics of D&D, but I love the mechanics of this LOTR game!).

With delight,

♥Jamie 

May 21: A Good Immune System

I woke up feeling much better, which was amazing considering I felt so awful just hours before. I've done some research and it turns out I probably came down with salmonella poisoning (I had literally *all* the symptoms of it) and I probably got it from hanging out so much with chickens (which is *so* unfortunate because I absolutely *love* hanging out with these chickens, but all that means is that I need to wash my hands much more thoroughly and more importantly not bring my water bottle into the coop with me.) [But at least it wasn't COVID!] But it is delightful that I have a good enough immune system to fight the salmonella. According to Mayo Clinic, most people don't need to seek medical attention for a salmonella infection because it clears up on its own within a few days. Mine cleared up within a day. And the fever I experienced was a sign that my body was working to protect me. 

Here is the best explanation of fever and the immune system's response that I've come across: 

Fever occurs when a virus or bacteria invades the body. The immune system produces chemicals called pyrogens, which trick the brain's hypothalamus (where the body's thermostat resides) into sensing an artificially cool body temperature. The brain responds like any good warm-blooded animal's would, by knocking the thermostat up a few notches. Blood rushes to the body's core, heating the body overall but cooling the surface — hence the chills. The body's metabolic rate goes up and and muscles contract — hence the muscle aches. The immune system's goal of creating a fever: to encourage chemical reactions that will increase production of disease-fighting antibodies, stimulate activity of white blood cells and even inhibit the invading microbe's growth, because the fever makes the body an inhospitable environment for the bacteria or virus.  

It continues to fascinate me how much the body does, completely independently, on its own. It is an amazing machine, especially when it works well, and I'm delighted that mine was working well!

With delight,
♥Jamie

May 20: Understanding Friends

I woke up not feeling quite right, but pushed through my morning routine. By early afternoon, I was fading fast (chills, muscle aches, lethargy, general malaise), and told my husband that I was going to chill on the couch and play video games. By early evening, I felt just awful. I tested my temp and had a fever, 100.4, which explains the chills and muscle aches. Weirdly enough, I felt exactly the same as after my first vaccine shot. No idea if this was COVID related, or just a weird one-off flu. I emailed my friends to cancel Jeo-Party, which pained me so, but my husband and friends were completely understanding and responded with well wishes. It's weird taking a sick day, not from work or school, but from obligations I've made for myself, games with friends, cooking dinner for my husband, taking care of the baby chicks. Luckily, he can (basically) fend for himself and he can help with the animals, and my friends are totally understanding. It is delightful to have a life where I can take a sick day to rest and get better (even though the actual being sick part still totally sucks and derailed all my plans for the day). 

With delight,

♥Jamie

May 19: Mini Band Practice

Four of the six members of Reset Button met Wednesday for practice. We hadn't gotten together since the fall, and even though it was just the four of us (one more than our Saturday impromptu practice), it was still delightful. We played through a bunch of new songs that our alto player arranged (including KK Cruisin from Animal Crossing, a game I've never played but it is a great song, and two from Persona 5, which I also have not played, but the music seems good!), my new song (which seemed to go well), and a few my husband did, almost all video game music, our specialty. It was good to get back in the rhythm  (literally and figuratively) and next week we hope to gather all 6 of us to have a full band practice! I also need to start thinking about potential gigs for us to play. Not that we are in this to play gigs (just getting together to play music is enough for us) but I definitely enjoy sharing the music we create with others. I will probably pursue Bit Bar again first. It is an arcade bar that is a perfect setting for our video game music, and they have an outdoor patio where we have played in the past which is perfect for the pandemic. I will also likely try to organize another "Klop Fest" this summer, featuring a few bands in our backyard with food and games. And maybe I will look into a few other outdoor music venues in the area. It's exciting and delightful to think about the musical possibilities for the summer.

With delight,

♥Jamie

Friday, May 21, 2021

May 18: Pushing Through Exhaustion

I babysat for my friend's 10-month-old daughter again, which required me to get up at 6am, to be at her house by 7:45am. I am usually not awake until 10am, so waking up 4 hours earlier was brutal. After 6 hours of babysitting, I went back home, exhausted, and still accomplished all the things I wanted to get done (doing the dishes, cleaning the kitchen, emptying the litter boxes, working on my brass band song, collecting RSVPS, and getting ready for Magic Pizza Tuesday). I only played one game of Magic in the evening, because socializing was exhausting, but instead of going to bed like I really wanted to, I got things ready for a brass band practice the next day. I finished my arrangement of Sparring With Neighbors, printed out music for a bunch of new songs, and arranged the music binders. I delighted in getting this done the day before practice, because usually I am scrambling 5 minutes before practice (and ALWAYS encountering problems getting my printer to work and getting super frustrated) to get the music ready on time. I am often a procrastinator because I get bursts of motivation and energy upon an approaching deadline. So it was delightful to be motivated to get this music prepared in advance, even in the midst of my exhaustion. 

With delight,

♥Jamie

May 17: Catching Up

It had been many weeks since my friend and I took our biweekly walk, but we made time today to make sure we could get together, even for a short time. We met at Agassiz Rock in Manchester-by-the-Sea, a Trustees of the Reservation property with a delightful loop trail highlighted by gigantic boulders. (In 1874, a group of students named this site to honor Louis Agassiz, the Harvard University professor who first theorized that the rocks that dot New England's landscape were shaped and deposited by glaciers (and were not the result of Noah's flood, as popularly believed). As glaciers scoured the landscape, the mass of bedrock forming the hill proved more resistant than the surrounding soil, forcing the bottom of the glacier up and over the hill. The north side was smoothed and the south side left steep and rugged as the glacier broke off chunks of rock as it passed.)

Because she was on a tight schedule, we only walked for about 45 minutes, but we had *so* much to talk about and catch up about. It was amazing to see that even in the midst of a pandemic, life was still busy enough for us to each have lots of news to share, some good and some bad. I shared the delight of my baby chicks and the dismay of losing Midna. I shared the delight of playing music again, but the dismay at not being able to start teaching again yet. I shared the delight of running every day for 30 minutes with my new elliptical, but the dismay of gaining weight and having seriously high cholesterol (thanks to my genetics). It was delightful to have a sounding board for all my joys and concerns, and it was delightful to be hers as well. I hope that we don't wait as long as we did to do this again!

With delight,
♥Jamie

May 16: Journey to Middle Earth

During Board Game Night, I led/taught a new game "Lord of the Rings: Journey to Middle Earth". It is the first game I've ever played that required a computer app. It is a cooperative game, so the five of us playing were each members of the Fellowship (Bilbo, Legolas, Gimli, Aragorn, and Elena, whoever *that* is), trying to save the world from whatever scenarios the game put us in. We played two "Adventures" (one we failed and one we succeeded) before cleaning up for the night, and the coolest thing about the app is we can continue playing additional adventures using the same characters and set up we built on during our previous adventures. The app also keeps track of a bunch of stats throughout the game (like when we gain "Lore" to upgrade our equipment or "XP" to gain new skills), and those stats will travel with us on additional adventures. 

I enjoyed that the game did not use dice; most games I play nowadays require the luck of the dice roll, which sometimes gets really frustrating. In this game, in order to attack or block or explore, you test certain of your attributes, like agility, might, or spirit, by flipping over cards in your deck, hoping to reveal enough success symbols to win the test. There are strategies you can use to ensure you flip over enough success symbols, though sometimes it is just luck of the draw, it is not nearly as bad as hoping for the right dice roll. 

I also enjoyed that the game continues to change after each action we take; the game board gets bigger, more enemies appear, different obstacles get in our way, and objectives change. It is delightfully entertaining. In addition, the fellowship that I put together was delightful to play with; we all learn games very quickly, and cooperate well together, but we are all also super easy going don't make a big deal when we make mistakes or we mess up the rules, because we all realize that it is just a game, and is supposed to be fun, and I very much appreciate that. Ever since, we've all been thinking about and talking about this game, so the fellowship will be reconvening soon, and probably often :)

With delight,

♥Jamie

Thursday, May 20, 2021

May 15: "Undertale: Core"

For the first time in 2021, I picked up my baritone saxophone and played music. My husband had had two friends over earlier in the day to play music, and one of them stuck around and suggested we played a few of our brass band songs while he was here (a few years ago we were a 9-piece group called the "Brewin' Brass Band" but we reorganized last year as a 6-piece group- 3 saxes, trombone, tuba, and drums- called "Reset Button", because we specialize in playing video game music. 

We started by playing a song called "Core" from one of my favorite video games ("Undertale"). And it was just like riding a bike. Core is one of the hardest songs we play (my part has six sharps!) but muscle memory served me well, and I did a decent job, even though we played along with the recording which is WAY faster than we usually play the song. Then we played "Bob-omb Battlefield" from Super Mario 64, "Casino Night Zone" from Sonic the Hedgehog, and the theme from "Ducktales". It was delightful to play this music again, and it got me inspired to try to get back into playing music regularly. I also was reminded that I haven't finished some of the arrangements I was working on, including the theme from "Animaniacs". 

(The playing of music and the writing of this blog inspired me to arrange this beautiful song called "Sparring With Neighbors" from the video game "My Time at Portia". It was my first time arranging a song from scratch; usually I copy and paste from someone else's arrangement, but this time I actually listened to the song, and wrote down each note for each part. It was very exciting and has reinvigorated my love for music!)

With delight,

♥Jamie

Saturday, May 15, 2021

May 14: Date Night

My husband and I have several movies on our "watch" list, and "The Fifth Element" was one of them (because I had never seen it).  Earlier in the week, my husband suggested we watch it soon, so we made a "date" for Friday. While we do spend like practically 24 hours a day with each other, we haven't been able to go out on an actual date since the pandemic began, and even though we weren't going anywhere to see this movie, it still kinda felt like a date. 

So on Friday I made a delicious dinner (lobster and crab stuffed salmon that I got from Costco (which turned out to be fantastic), riced broccoli and cauliflower, and snow peas) and we sat down to watch the movie. I had added it to my list on Hulu months ago, but apparently it wasn't available to watch on Hulu anymore! Grrr!! I tried Netflix, but as I expected it is not on there either, so I decided to just rent it from Amazon Prime. When I signed on and found the movie, I saw that it was available to watch for free "with a 7 day free trial to AMC". My whole life I have taken advantage of the "Free Trial". I always cancel within the trial period, but get all the cool benefits in the mean time. This was especially important as I grew up (my family didn't have a lot of money) and in college (when I was on my own and still didn't have a lot of money). I always put the cancellation date in my calendar, and always, always, cancelled on time (I know how these companies work; they are hoping you forget to cancel or don't do it in time, so a "free" trial turns into a monthly fee, but I am smarter than that). My husband, on the other hand, really hates that I do this. He thinks it is unethical to sign up for a free trial if I never intend to sign up for the service, but I argue, isn't that the point of the free trial? If they wow me with their service during the free trial, then maybe I will sign up for good. But I should at least reap the benefits of the free trial while I can. 

So here we are on Amazon Prime, and the choices are: $3.99 to rent "The Fifth Element" or sign up for a seven day free trial of AMC and watch it for free. My husband says I should just pay for it, since it's just $3.99 for our date. While I thought that sentiment was cute, I am cheap date, so I am signed up for the free trial. 😘 Hahahahahaha! Delightful!

And then of course, we watched "The Fifth Element" which is a very bizarre and very campy movie starring Bruce Willis. Definitely not one of those movies I would ever crave watching again, but definitely interesting, and I'm glad to have experienced it. I really enjoyed the futuristic imaginings of our world in 2263, including flying cars, flying food trucks that come to your house to cook your lunch, what appeared to be a replicator to make food (by using little pellets and "microwaving" them), and another kind of replicator that could create a human being from just a few cells, etc etc. It also had at least one thought-provoking moment. The alien Leeloo educates herself on the long history of war on Earth, from dictators to coups to nuclear bombs, and is left to wonder exactly what she’s fighting so hard to protect or why. (“Everything you create, you use to destroy.”) She almost gives up, but does indeed save the world once she experiences love. (Corny, I know, but delightful nonetheless.)

With delight,

♥Jamie

Friday, May 14, 2021

May 13: Bird Songs

In addition to our 10 chickens, 2 ducks, occasionally 4 baby chicks, and a flock of wild turkeys, there are a lot of other birds in our yard outside, especially songbirds. I have started to be able to identify birds based on their calls, and it is delightful. 

Black-Capped Chickadee: They have several calls but one of the most prominent that I can always identify sounds like "chicka-dee-dee-dee-dee-dee". They are the Massachusetts State Bird, so there are a lot of them around, at all times of the year. And they are super easy to identify, with their black caps and chins and white cheeks. 

Eastern Phoebe: Plump grey-ish brown bird with a white belly, Phoebe's migrate during the winter, and I was super excited to see/hear them again this spring. One of their calls sounds like they are saying their name: "Fee-bayyyy"

Tufted Titmouse: They are grey birds with crest of feathers on their heads. One of their calls sounds like "peter-peter-peter-peter". They also have a "tooo-tooo" sound, almost like a choo-choo train, that the baby chicks respond to, which is super cute. 

White-Breasted Nuthatch: They have a blue-gray back, stark white cheeks, and a black cap, with rusty spots on its rear underside. They are always upside down on trees and the bird feeders, and they have a call that sounds like they are sarcastically laughing "heh-heh-heh-heh-heh"-- probably my absolutely favorite call. 

Northern Cardinal: Gorgeous red birds (males) or grey birds with striking orange beaks (females). They have a lot of calls, some sound like "Bird-DEE bird-DEE bird-DEE" and others kinda sound like  "be-a-pal be-a-pal" or "storm trooper storm trooper", and sometimes even have "pew-pew" sounds like a light saber. They also end some of their calls with this adorable purring trill, that the baby chicks also like to emulate. 

I have very much enjoyed getting to know these birds, especially as I spend more time outside hanging out with the baby chicks. So many delightful sounds, so many delightful birds!

With delight,

♥Jamie

Thursday, May 13, 2021

May 12: Profanicities

One of the categories I created for Jeo-Party this week I titled "Profanicities", my very own portmanteau (beafter!) for "profanities" and "cities". It was inspired by a tidbit I learned on "Wait Wait Don't Tell Me" a few weeks ago about the city of "Bitche" in France. Apparently the city had its Facebook page accidentally deleted for violating Facebook's terms and conditions for using profanities. I googled the city and the headlines of the news stories about this were hilarious: "Life's a Bitche" and "Facebook pulled the page for Bitche because it was not Nice" (get it, the city of Nice in France?!? hahahaha). I also learned a few fun facts about Bitche:

  • The city was named for an old stronghold standing on a rock 250 feet above the town called "Bytis Castrum". 
  • The inhabitants of the commune are known as Bitchois and Bitchoises.

I eventually ended up on a list at Wikipedia called "Place names considered unusual" where I learned of a bunch more cities with profane-sounding names. Other fun cities in France:

  • "Condom" which comes from the Gaulish words condate and magos combined into Condatomagos, which means "market or field, of the confluence".
  • "Pussy" derives from the Roman personal name Pussius, which refers to the owner of the place in the Roman era

I delighted in finding all these fun city names, and I have enough of them for several Jeo-Party categories. My favorite part was trying to figure out the derivations of the towns' names, like a detective with a puzzle to be solved. 

With delight,

♥Jamie

Wednesday, May 12, 2021

May 11: Why Do Cats...?

My husband and I have found ourselves googling random questions about our cats' odd yet delightful behaviors. For example, if I leave the bedroom door open and there's a sock on the floor, Fela will inevitably find it, bring it downstairs to me, and make this particular mewing sound that I only ever hear when he brings me a sock. So we googled "Why do cats bring me socks?" with delightful results. Here are some reasons why:

1. Cat experts believe that felines like to bring socks or other items to their humans as part of a “toss and fetch” game. I know this is not the case with Fela, as we have tried throwing the socks and getting him to play with them, but he has never been interested. Fela *does* however play fetch with little tinfoil balls, and will play catch with kitty treats. He is very athletic, just not with sox. 😉

2. A more likely reason is that Fela may be teaching me how to hunt. Cat ancestors once taught their young how to eat by bringing home their prey. Domestic cats still possess this instinct but since they do not have their young to teach hunting skills they turn to their owners and since Fela stays indoors, items like socks are usually accessible and their next options instead of dead prey. 

3. The most likely reason is that Fela simply feels like it because he thinks it is fun. Cats are playful creatures and bringing socks to you may simply mean they are doing it out of sheer fun.

Here's another fun question I googled: "Why do cats run around after they poop?" It's another crazy behavior Fela exhibits. After he is done using the litter box, he runs around the house like crazy person (I often say he "runs around like a banshee" but apparently banshees don't run around like crazy like I imagined, they actually scream like crazy, oops! but anyways...). Here are some reasons why:

1. Cats who are used to getting their rear ends licked by their mother after defecating as kittens are showing off their independence by sprinting away, their butts having taken on self-cleaning properties in adulthood. (maybe not Fela's reason, as he never spent any time with his mother, unless it's just an instinct). 

2. Cats have a vagus nerve running from their brain stem which can be stimulated by defecation, leading to a pleasurable sensation and what some have labeled “poo-phoria,” or post-poop elation. In running, the cat may simply be working off excess energy brought on by stimulation of the nerve. (definitely a possible reason for Fela).

3. Notoriously hygienic cats may simply want to shake off excess litter or fecal matter by running a 100-meter dash (this is the most likely reason, and is also super gross. Thanks Fela for spreading litter and fecal matter all over our house!)

Thanks to Fela and Google for never-ending delight!

With delight,

♥Jamie

May 10: Routine

I am very much delighting in the routine I have developed for myself. I originally thought that not having a job would eventually drive me crazy and I would be super bored, but that has totally not been the case. In fact, there are still things I am not finding enough time for (for example, I want to paint for pleasure more, but I have too much painting in the house to do). Here is my current delightful routine:

Mondays, Thursdays, Fridays, and Saturdays
10am: Make breakfast for my husband and I (usually eggs and leeks with coffee)
11am: Eat breakfast while blogging and working on Jeo-Party 
Afternoon: Work on kitchen remodel project and have a baby chicken adventure
6pm (ish): Run for 30 minutes and shower
7pm: Make dinner
8pm: Eat dinner and either play video games or a board game, or Jeo-Party on Thursdays

Tuesdays
10am-5pm: Same as above
5pm: Run for 30 minutes and shower
6pm: Pick up pizza
6:30pm: Magic Pizza Tuesday

Wednesdays
9:30am: Make breakfast
10am: Meals on Wheels
12pm: Grocery Shopping
Afternoon: Finish jeo-party and have a baby chicken adventure
6pm (ish): Run for 30 minutes and shower
7pm: Make dinner
8pm: Eat dinner and edit Jeo-party with my husband

Sundays:
10am-5pm: Same as Mondays
5pm: Run for 30 minutes and shower
6pm: Make dinner
7pm: Board Games with friends

I'm sure that this routine won't be the same for too long; I really hope that I'll be able to start teaching music again soon, it'll be summer soon so things will change, the kitchen project will eventually be done, and the baby chickens will be living permanently in their coop. But for now, I will delight in this routine, without getting *too* attached to it. 

With delight,
♥Jamie 

Monday, May 10, 2021

May 9: Tokena in my lap

I took the baby chickens outside on another chicken adventure on Sunday; this time we hung out in the adult chicken coop where they will eventually be living (with Pepper, Patty, and Tokena). Munchkin was, of course, the first baby chick to approach the adult chickens, and Tokena pecked her right in the eye (typical pecking order behavior). Saltina was the other baby chick who was brave enough to approach, and she got pecked by Pepper. Cecelia and Boco were WAY too scared to even get near the adults. The adults seemed more interested in the baby chicken food than they were in the baby chicks, and I had to continually push the adults away from the food (and thus the chicks). I wanted them to be in the same vicinity, but not too close, because the baby chicks are WAY too small to have even a remote possibility of defending themselves in the pecking order. It will be great for their eventual integration for them to be used to each others sounds and smells and bodies, so I hope to have them all hang out regularly (the babies probably won't live full time in there for another couple of weeks, until they have all their feathers and no more fluff.)  

At one point while hanging out in the coop, I took out the chicken treats to distract and to appease the adult chickens. This may have been a mistake, because I all of a sudden had three full-grown adult chickens on top of me, begging for treats. I'm used to having Pepper in my lap (she's been my favorite since she was one-day-old and she has always been the most personable chicken; it didn't hurt that she lived in our house for a few weeks as an adult while she recovered from an inflamed ankle). But since we adopted Tokena as an adult chicken, I've never really had any cuddle time with her. She really loved the treats I was giving her, and climbed right up into my lap and let me hug/cuddle/pet her. She is a super sweet chicken, and it was delightful to spend some time with her. I hope that she and Pepper and Patty accept our new baby chickens and that they all live happily ever after in their coop. Of course, that remains to be seen. Until them, I will delight in my daily adventures with the babies as they meet and greet with the adults. 

With delight,

♥Jamie

May 8: Rachel Bloom

While working on my kitchen cabinet painting project, I listened to NPR's Ask Me Another which happened to be a rerun with guest Rachel Bloom the creator and star of one of my favorite TV shows, "Crazy Ex-Girlfriend". I remember listening to this episode a few months ago and learning about the music video she made called "F*** Me Ray Bradbury" that was released on Bradbury's 90th birthday in 2010.  Of course, my husband and I had immediately looked up said music video and watched it, and it was delightful clever and hilarious. At the time, it got me thinking that maybe I should read some Ray Bradbury, because never in my life had I ever read anything by him, and if I liked Rachel Bloom, and Rachel Bloom liked Ray Bradbury, then maybe I would like Ray Bradbury. I started with "Farenheit 451", which was interesting but definitely not my *favorite* book, but then I read "The Martian Chronicles", which I absolutely fell in love with (it also happens to be Rachel's favorite Bradbury book). It is a collection of short stories, but all on the same overarching theme of humans starting to colonize Mars; the stories feature different people and different Martians during this colonization period. It has inspired me to consider writing my own short stories, continuing on the theme, kind of like Ray Bradbury fan fiction. 

It was delightful to hear this Ask Me Another episode again because it reminded me that it had inspired me to try Ray Bradbury. Rachel Bloom herself is also delightful, she is an amazingly talented and hilarious singer/songwriter and I quite enjoyed "Crazy Ex Girlfriend" because of her goofy spoofy songs (each episode contains two to four original songs, as the main character, Rebecca Bunch, played by Bloom, often breaks out into song to describe her feelings, like in a musical.)

I don't know *too* much about Rachel, so I looked her up. She was born in 1987 in LA, got a BFA in Drama from NYU, and interned for head writer Seth Meyers at Saturday Night Live. She just released a memoir titled "I Want To Be Where The Normal People Are" which I have added to my "To-Read" list. And a fun coincidental fact: Bloom co-wrote the song "Super Friend" performed by Melissa Benoist and Grant Gustin, featured on the musical crossover episode of "Supergirl" and "The Flash" titled "Duet". (In case you forgot, I have been watching "Supergirl" for the first. The song was featured in a Season 2 episode called "City of Lost Children". Another episode from Season 2 was called "The Martian Chronicles". *mind blown*)

With delight,

♥Jamie

Saturday, May 8, 2021

May 7: Instincts

I continue to delight in all the time I get to spend with my baby chickens and I am fascinated by all of their instinctual behaviors that I am noticing. This is our third batch of chickens, so I have become very familiar with the typical behaviors of a chicken, and now I can recognize the beginnings of these behaviors in the babies. 

For example, yesterday during our greenhouse adventure time, a hawk flew over us and its shadow could be clearly seen. That is an immediate sign of danger to a chicken, and they instinctually know to hide (duck and cover) in order to not get snatched up. All four of them dove for cover: Boco hid under my leg, Cecelia and Saltina hid behind a trash can, and little Munchkin squeezed herself between a bucket and a flower pot (by far the most clever hiding spot). It was amazing to witness this moment, because I certainly did not teach them this, they didn't have a mother hen to teach them, and they had never even seen a hawk before. They just knew that big scary shadow = duck and cover. I was so impressed! 

Another instinctual behavior they have exhibited since I met them is the kick and scratch move that chickens do when they are foraging for bugs. The babies did it in the brooder, even though sadly there were no bugs for them to find under the pine shavings, and they do it in the green house to get the worms and ants. 

Another behavior I've seen since the beginning is them knowing how to preen their feathers. They aren't born with feathers, but started growing in some when we got them, and all four of them have figured out how to preen. 

And this morning, Munchkin exhibited the instinct of the dirt bath, which we see not only all of our chickens, but also the wild turkeys, do in our yard. They fluff up their wings and kick dirt into them and then hunker down and almost bury themselves in the dirt (for awhile we had a big hole in front of our house because it was the chickens' favorite dirt bathing spot). Seeing Munchkin "bathing" in the pine shavings in her cage was delightful, and just another example of all the cool things chickens are born with.

I get the same feeling I know I would get if I had a child, and she spoke her first word or took her first steps. I very much enjoy witnessing these "firsts" with my baby chicks!

With delight,

♥Jamie 

Friday, May 7, 2021

May 6: 69 in '69

I developed a delightful category for yesterday's Jeo-Party called "69 in '69" that was super successful and I was very proud of. I had the idea to go through the weekly Billboard Top 100 lists throughout the year of 1969 to look for songs that ranked at #69. About half of them were by familiar artists, and a handful of them peaked at #69 in 1969; immediately I knew I had an awesome category: songs that peaked at #69 in 1969. I had never heard any of the songs so I created a playlist and listened; unfortunately none of the songs are very good, which I guess explains why they peaked at #69. I created the clues to have my friends guess the musician, because guessing the song title would have been impossible. Here they are the songs if you are curious:

  • “The Young Folks” by The Supremes
  •  “I've Been Loving You Too Long” by Ike & Tina Turner
  •  “By The Time I Get To Phoenix” by Isaac Hayes (this song peaked at 69 on 9/6/69 😉)
  • “Tell All The People” by The Doors
  • “Blistered/See Ruby Fall” by Johnny Cash

My next challenge is to look with the Billboard Top 100 to find songs that ranked #99 in 1999. We'll see if any of them are at all familiar enough to create a category. 

I also created a category of "Before and Afters" by searching a database for Wikipedia search terms that included the word "girl" and them mashed 10 of them together into 5 clues. The absolute best, which had my friends laughing, was "Golden Girls Gone Wild." hahahahahaha. Still makes me giggle. I very much enjoy the searchable database in order to create Before and Afters, and I look forward to creating more. 

With delight,

♥Jamie



May 5: New Clothes

I went to Marshall's to get my husband some new socks, and to look for a few items for me: new pajama pants, maybe some pajama shorts in preparation for summer time, and new sports bras for running. The two sports bras that I currently have I swear I have had since high school, they've lasted so long because I only wear them for exercising, and I have only ever exercised sporadically in the last twenty years (Let's see... I went to the gym [SPAC] in college regularly for about a semester, I went to the YMCA in Beloit during one of my summers in college, I joined the Westford Racquetball and Tennis Club Gym for 6 months in 2010 [by the far the most successful gym experience I've ever had], I vaguely remember joining a 24 hour gym at some point for a bit in Groton, I joined a gym in Waltham for a few months in 2012, and I went to the YMCA in Gloucester and Ipswich for about a year a few years ago.) Now that I have set the goal to run for 30 minutes every day with my very own elliptical at home, I figured I should upgrade my sports bra collection, and I found three delightful new ones at Marshalls. They are super soft and comfy, and they make me excited to use them and keep up my running regiment. Ever since I quit my job in the midst of this pandemic, I haven't had much need for new clothes, since I've just been at home wearing pajamas, paint clothes, and leggings/hoodies most of the time, so it was delightful to get finally get some new clothes. I did take a glance at the dress collection at Marshalls like I usually do, but because I don't yet really have any places to wear dresses and  because the dressing rooms are still closed due to COVID, I don't really feel like spending money on things I can't try on first. So for now, I'll stick to the pajamas. (By the way, the pajama pants I got are also super soft and comfy). One more delightful thing, while in the checkout line, I saw two bags of gummy bears, which my husband has been enjoying recently after our friends keep bringing over bags for Magic Pizza Tuesday, so I decided to buy them for him. So yes, I delightfully brought home socks and gummy bears for my husband. 

With delight,
♥ Jamie

Thursday, May 6, 2021

May 4: Running Playlist

One of things I found in my filing extravaganza the other day was a page from a magazine from 2009 that I had ripped out and saved. It had a playlist of songs created for running. I had always meant to make the playlist and try it out, but never did. Fast forward 12 years, and I finally made the playlist (on Spotify). I've been using my elliptical every day for over a week,  but I've mostly been watching episodes of Supergirl while running. But now that I had this specially curated playlist for running, I decided to try it out. And it was amazingly delightful. I didn't recognize any of the songs by name, but I did recognize a few once listening to them. The songs were perfect to run to, several of them started off a little slow and got faster and featured a super powerful bridge in the middle that really got my heart pumping. 

The Mummers' Dance by Loreena McKennitt (I've never heard of or heard this song, but it's nice to start running to. Not too fast, not too energetic, and six minutes long, perfect for a warm up.)

Whenever, Wherever by Shakira (I haven't heard this song in several years, but I remember loving it and it's perfect for running. And because I knew it, I could sing along too. It's got a powerful chorus.)
Whenever, wherever
We're meant to be together
I'll be there, and you'll be near
And that's the deal, my dear
There over, hereunder
You've got me head over heels
There's nothing left to fear
If you really feel the way I feel

Fire on the Mountain by Rob Thomas (I'm pretty sure I had never heard this song before, but it's great for running. It has this wonderful driving drumbeat that really got me moving and it gets really energetic in the middle to make me move even faster.)

Funny the Way It is by Dave Matthews Band (I vaguely remember hearing the bridge before, but it's overall a pretty unfamiliar song to me. It starts off mellow but has a nice driving beat and slowly builds up to the bridge, which is one of those super powerful ones and has hilariously ironic lyrics.)
Standing on a bridge, watch the water passing under me
It must've been much harder when there was no bridge just water
Now the world is small, remember how it used to be
With mountains and oceans and winters and rivers and stars

New Divide by Linkin Park (I've totally heard this song before but it's been a long time and I had totally forgotten about it. It has an amazing chorus that makes you want to belt out the lyrics and run super fast.)
Give me reason
To fill this hole
Connect this space between
Let it be enough to reach the truth that lies
Across this new divide

If You Could Only See by Tonic (A very familiar song, nice to start wrapping up the run. Steady beat, singalongable, but not too energetic.)

When I think of You by Janet Jackson (Very familiar song, and great for the end of the run. Smooth, mellow, but with a steady beat.)

I ended up running faster and farther than I had on the machine since I got it, because the songs really got me going. It inspired me to look up other running playlists (which of course there are tons of on Spotify). [Since I am writing this on Thursday, I will cheat and say that yesterday I tried another one and found an absolutely amazing song to run to that I had never heard before but now absolutely love:]

Break Free by Ariana Grande and Zedd (It's got a techno steady beat and PERFECT lyrics for running. And the last few times through the chorus it really got me moving and swinging my head and wanting to dance.)
This is the part when I say I don't want ya
I'm stronger than I've been before
This is the part when I break free
'Cause I can't resist it no more

I was already enjoying running because I was feeling so good afterwards, but now I am looking forward to creating and using these running playlists to learn new music while also exercising. 

With delight,
♥Jamie 

Tuesday, May 4, 2021

May 3: Filing

Being the nerd that I am, I enjoy filing away paperwork. The other day, my husband and I found a box of papers that had not been sorted into my filing cabinet, so I went through them all today to sort them into their appropriate files. I found a few delightful little things that I had forgotten about. 

A few years ago, I bought six different types of apples for a private apple tasting at my house (we were interested in apples because we were buying apples trees, and I used to use apples in brewing beer). My favorite apple had always been Pink Lady, so I knew I was getting a Pink Lady Apple Tree, but I didn't know what other apples I liked, so we tasted these:

Fuji: really all water, no flavor (tied for my least favorite)

Gala: watery, chewy skin, sweet/tart bite (tied for my least favorite, but my husband liked)

Granny Smith: sour tart, "sour apple" (okay, but not my favorite)

Cortland: Good, different, chewy, sour-y, melt in your mouth but crisp (my third favorite of the bunch)

Empire: sweet, meaty, hmm not bad, would consider (my second favorite of the bunch)

Honey Crisp: earthy, very chewy skin, sweet like honey, no bite (my favorite of the bunch)

By the way, the apple trees we ended up planting are: Pink Lady (x2), Honey Crisp, Gala, and Black Arkansas (a very rare dark-colored apple, supposedly tart and crisp with a sweet sugary finish with hints of vanilla, almond, and cinnamon). We also planted other fruit trees: Toka plum, Black Tartarian cherry, and Bing cherry). 

I also found a note with what used to be my favorite drinking game, called "Kings". Super simple set up, just need a deck cards, shuffle it, and splay them out in a circle face down. Players take turns picking cards at random and different things happen depending on what card you pick. There are a million different ways to play with a million different rules, but this was my favorite set up:

2: you (pick someone to drink)
3: me (drink a drink yourself)
4: floor (last person to touch the floor drinks)
5: sky (last person to reach for the sky drinks)
6: dicks (guys drink)
7: chicks (girls drink)
8: mate (pick a partner and you both drink)
9: rhyme (you start by saying a word, go around in a circle saying rhymes of the word, first person who can't make a rhyme drinks)
10: category  (you start my picking a category (like "Flavors of Ice Cream") then go around in a circle named things that fit the category, first person who can't drinks)
J: Never Have I ever (everyone starts with three fingers. Each person says a Never Have I Ever. If you have, you put a finger down. First person with all three fingers down takes a drink). 
Q: Question (everything said after this card is picked must be in the form of a question. First person to mess up drinks). 
K: Waterfall (you start drinking, everyone around the circle in turn starts drinking. You choose when to stop drinking, and everyone around the circle in turn chooses to stop drinking). 
A: Make a Rule (my favorite, you make a new rule. For example, you can't say Proper Nouns, or else you drink. Or you say a sexual innuendo, you drink (which is where my "drink" joke comes from... whenever my husband or I say a sexual innuendo, we almost always say "drink"... kinda like our own version of "That's What She Said.")

When I was the director of an after school program, I actually turned this game into a non-drinking game for kids, and they LOVED it. 

Oh the memories!

With delight,
♥Jamie


May 2: Coffee Tasting

We signed up to participate in a virtual coffee tasting via WGBH (one of our local NPR stations). We were sent a coffee tasting kit in the mail in preparation for the webinar. I set up our coffee tasting station as instructed, and we signed on at 11am. The talk was moderated by Brian O'Donovan (of A Celtic Sojourn) and we were instructed by Shannon, a licensed Q grader from Coffee Lab International’s School of Coffee in Waterbury, Vermont. (A "Q grader" is like a wine sommelier or beer cicerone for coffee, it's a licensing standard developed by the Coffee Quality Institute). We learned a ton of fun facts and had a delightful time. 

I always wonder about how/why certain foods/recipes come into existence. For example, who thought to ferment the sugars from grain to make beer? That was probably an accident- someone left grain out in the elements, it got wet, naturally fermented from the yeast in the air, and created alcohol, and when people went to eat it, they realized that it tasted funny and made them feel different (at the time, they thought it was a gift from the gods). And who thought to use the bean inside the cherry of a coffee tree to make a caffeinated beverage? Apparently legend has it that a 9th century goat herder in Ethiopia named Kaldi noticed that after his goats chewed the red cherries of an unfamiliar tree, they were more active throughout the night. (They are now known as Kaldi's dancing goats.) He tried chewing the cherries too and got a burst of energy. That inspired people to look more into these mysterious cherries, and eventually the beverage known as coffee was born. 

A coffee cherry is a very intricate little fruit. Surrounding the bean that we roast to make coffee are layers of silver skin, parchment, mucilage, pulp, and skin. Here's a cool picture/diagram of coffee from leaf to bean:

Coffee grows between the tropic of Cancer and the tropic of Capricorn. There are two main species of coffee plant: arabica and robusta. Arabica (about 70% of the world's coffee production) grows at higher altitudes, and is sweet, with higher acidity (aka brightness, liveliness), cleaner finish, and less body. Robusta grows at sea level and is bitter, with lower acidity, harsher/chalky finish, and heavy body. Here's a coffee family tree:

We were given three different types of coffee from the Vermont Coffee Company for sampling, 100% Arabica from Guatemala, Ethiopia, and Sumatra, and we were instructed to make our coffee using the "cupping method" which is used internationally for coffee tasting. I had never heard of it or done it before, so it was super cool to do. Basically, you add ground coffee to a cup and then add heated water (~200°F) and let it sit undisturbed for 4 minutes (2TB coffee for every 200mL of water). Then you use two spoons to break the crust, scrape it off the top layer of the cup. To sample, you use a spoon to take some liquid out and slurp it up (which oxygenates the sample, allowing for a better tasting experience). 

We smelled and tasted each coffee, noting all the aromas and flavors from this flavor wheel. 

Picture 2

The flavor of coffee, like the flavor of wine and beer, is affected by the environment in which it is produced (which is called "terroir"). For coffee, factors that affect flavor include: altitude, climate, soil, harvesting, and processing. For example, higher altitude coffees (Ethiopia, Kenya, Guatemala, etc) have flavors of fruit, spice, floral, berry, and wine; medium altitude coffees (Costa Rica, Sumatra) have flavors of citrus, vanilla, chocolate, and nut; lower altitudes of coffees (Hawaiian) have subtler, softer, and milder flavors. 

Here are our tasting notes:

Guatemala: roasted cereal, nut, butter, plain/mild

Ethiopia: citrus fruit, floral, high acidity, like earl grey tea

Sumatra: roasted, earthy, herbal, chocolate

I liked the Sumatra best, Guatemala second, and Ethiopia third. Then we blended the three and that had a delightful flavor. I am beginning to learn that I enjoy medium altitude coffee with a dark roast. 

The whole experience reminded me of my once love of beer, and I am excited about learning more about coffee and enjoying the tasting experience like I once enjoyed with beer. 

Also, one more delightful thing to take note of: after the tasting, we hosted a delightful Sunday Board Game Night. As you may know, we used to host a Thursday night Board Game Night at our house, sometimes with 20 or more people in attendance. The pandemic obviously derailed that, and we pivoted to online games, including Jeo-Party every Thursday. A couple of months ago, a friend started hosting a Sunday night board game night, but he is no longer able to host, so we have taken over that responsibility. Last night we had 7 people in attendance.  We started by playing Dixit, and then split up to play two games: Puerto Rico and Wingspan. It was almost just like "normal", and it was delightful. 

With delight,

♥Jamie

May 1: Wood Putty

We are making some great progress on our kitchen remodeling project. My husband has made three of the five pieces of cabinetry for our kitchen island that will surround our stove in the middle of the kitchen (two sets of drawers and three bookcases), and I am tasked with sanding, priming, and painting them. There are a few blemishes on the plywood, so I went to Building Center to get wood putty to fill in the gaps. My husband notoriously hates wood putty (not sure why), but I decided the blemishes were noticeable enough that they needed a fix. Back at home, I gave the wood putty a try, and it was amazing. Super easy to use, dried quickly, and after sanding and painting, you can barely tell any of the blemishes were ever there. I really enjoy this project that we are working on together, and even though it is is taking a lot of time and effort (it took my husband 20 hours to make just one of the sets of drawers, and it has taken me at least 15 hours to get the primer and first coat on the three completed pieces), I am confident it is going to be worth it. It is so satisfying to create things and to make our home the way we want it to be. I delight in the materials I am using, the primer, the cabinet paint, the sandpaper, the brushes, the wood putty, and the wood putty knife. And I very much delight in my husbands amazing carpentry skills! I can't wait to get it all set up and put our kitchen back in order!

With delight,

♥Jamie

Sunday, May 2, 2021

April 30: Good People

Today was a rough day, a very sad day, and while I definitely did not exactly feel delight at all, and I definitely did not smile or laugh at all, I was filled with feelings of gratitude to have good people in my life, thankful for their love, kindness, understanding, and generosity. My husband and I went out to the duck coop to do our daily foot-soaking ritual. The past few days her sore had been getting worse and worse, and today it was unbearable. She could not stand on it, she would not keep it in the nice warm Epsom salt bath, and she actively fought me the entire time I tried to keep her in the bath. It was miserable and so incredibly sad; she seemed to be in an immense amount of pain. After the bath, the scab on her foot fell right off like it was supposed to, but underneath was just an impossibly large and entangled sore that was definitely going to need surgery and a lot of recovery. I felt so horrible; I am a fairly empathic person and I could feel her pain in my heart and soul, and I was overcome with sadness. I haven't felt genuinely sad in a really long time (depression is a totally different feeling than sadness). I cried a lot, and my husband did too. For awhile, all we did was sit and hold each other, crying. 

I probably say this a lot in this blog, but I am so thankful to have him in my life. He has so much love in his heart, not only for me, but for all of our animals (and his plants as well!) He is such a good person, and I wouldn't want to have anyone else by my side while I experience this kind of sadness. It was comforting being able to be sad with him. I am also thankful we are so often on the same page about things. I could not bear to see this poor little duck in pain, but I also could not bear to imagine putting her through surgery and a rough recovery period, and neither could he. It was not something we wanted to subject a duck to (not to mention it was going to take a lot of time, emotional and physical energy, and money from us), so I started called around to vets for advice and to make a possible appointment. No one would be able to exam her until maybe Tuesday at the earliest and we didn't want to wait that long to be told the inevitable, that she would need surgery. So we made the incredibly difficult decision to have her put down, to end her pain and misery. A vet in North Andover no longer had their exotic vet on staff, but they were willing to euthanize her, which made me think to ask our local vet, Cape Ann Veterinary Hospital, to see if maybe they would do it, so we wouldn't have to drive all the way to Andover. I called them and while they do not see ducks or have an exotic vet on staff, one of the vets was willing to euthanize her (and just one hour later). It all happened so fast, from the decision to the making of the appointment, but everyone I spoke to was super nice and helpful. 

When the time finally came, we brought Midna to the vet. The worst part was the excruciatingly long wait to see the vet. I had this horribly uncomfortable pit of anxiety in my stomach. Finally we saw him, and he was incredibly kind and understanding, and agreed with us that this was the best decision for us to make for her. He took her away to a back room, gave her gas to put her to sleep, and euthanized her. She was finally out of her pain, and hopefully enjoying a better life in duckie heaven. When we went to pay the bill, I imagined it would be several hundred dollars, which I was totally prepared for, but they only charged us $10, because we are regular clients and they felt so bad. It was such an amazingly kind gesture. The bill was actually $165, but they gave us a $155 discount. What good people, not only to take in a duck, but to also give us such a steep discount. Even though it was one of the most horrible days of my life I've had recently, it was comforting (and delightful) to have good people surround us along the way. 

With delight (and a lot of sadness),

♥Jamie

April 29: Much Bigger Chickens

Our baby chickens are now three weeks old, and they are HUGE (and absolutely delightful)! They have grown by leaps and bounds, a little bit every day. Sometimes I swear I look in on them after a few hours, and they have grown some more even in that short period of time! I've been taking them out of their cage every day for some people/socializing time, and they love to perch on my fingers and just chill out with me. The other day I played a video game while a chicken perched on me. Every time I open up their box, at least one of them tries to fly out and perch on me. When I hold them, sometimes they escape my grasp and fly up to my shoulder to sit there (which totally reminds me of my Fela kitty who loves to be on my shoulders.) Speaking of Fela, he is getting super jealous every time I spend time with them. 

I also think that all four of them officially have names: in addition to Saltina (because she's a salty girl), we have Cecilia (named after the Simon & Garfunkel song), Munchkin (because she's the runt of the family), and Boco (a chocobo from Final Fantasy). They now have feathers and are starting to grow combs, and have super long legs and huge feet. While it is admittedly sad that they grow so quickly, it is delightful to experience it, and I am thankful I have so much time at home to spend with them. I really really want them to be personable, and I think my time with them is helping.

(I'm writing this entry on Sunday, so I want to add that on Saturday I took them outside for the first time to spend some free time in the greenhouse. It's a warm, enclosed area, which is perfect for them to be able to get out and stretch their wings. Saltina was totally fine the whole time, not nervous or scared at all; she really seemed to enjoy exploring. Munchkin braved up after not too long; she and Saltina both started to forgage, finding bugs and worms and even fighting over them. Boco was a bit more hesitant about exploring, but did a little bit. Poor Cecelia seemed scared almost the entire time, but did a bit of exploring near the very end. All of them used me as their home base, which was an amazingly good sign that they know me, like me, and trust me. Several times I had all four of them perching on my arms, which was the most adorable thing ever. I look forward to giving them more time outside with me!)

With delight,
♥Jamie